So take a minute now and jot down at least 10 IMPORTANT requirements for TRUE LOVE. The more you list - the clearer the picture you are creating. Be honest with yourself. Because in order to draw 'true love' into your life you must be able to recognize it, embrace it and imagine yourself being loved and adored. You must also feel that you are worthy of TRUE LOVE!
If you are in an abusive relationship you do not fully love yourself. If you allow someone to 'use you', or 'verbally abuse you' or 'physically hurt you' your boundaries are not clearly defined. In reality, NO ONE can hurt us - we allow them too. Remember that. Because if your current relationships are not working - stop blaming your partner and begin to look within.
completely..
to DRAW TRUE LOVE into your life!"
Imagine a bottle of water in front of you. If you poke a hole in the bottle.. what comes out? 'Water' of course. If you have container of chocolate syrup in your hands and the bottle breaks - what is inside? Chocolate syrup! And so it is with your sub-conscious mind. If you are always angry and mad at the world.. what radiates from you? Anger of course. On the other hand, if you are full of positive and loving thoughts.. what emanates from you? All good things!!!! So, to draw TRUE LOVE into your life.. first and foremost you must learn to LOVE and RESPECT YOURSELF. Many people interpret that to mean that they need to have the most expensive clothes and designer wares. That is fine, if you can afford it but if you are going into debt to look good.. then re-examine this need. More important than how you 'look' is how you feel. If you are afraid of love or afraid of relationships or commitment.. what do you radiate to the world? Fear of course! If you have LOVE in your heart for yourself and others.. what radiates from you? Love!!!
Setting Boundaries - a Key to Good Relationships: Those who truly love themselves have set boundaries. If someone oversteps those boundaries.. they don't tolerate it. In other words, if someone treats you poorly and you don't have boundaries defined - you most likely will complain about it but you will stay in the relationship and accept it, even though it makes you unhappy. The message your partner gets is: 'it is ok to treat you like this'. I see this most often with people who are involved with another person who is unfaithful or verbally abusive. If you 'allow it'.. then the person will continue to do it. If you define your boundaries and let them know that being unfaithful or verbally abusive (or whatever the undesirable trait may be) is unacceptable to you.. then the message you give them is you are not going to tolerate that behavior. If the person continues to be unfaithful or abusive, the person with good boundaries would 'move on' with their life.. choosing not to be in such a relationship; thus breaking the pattern of abuse before it really starts!
KEY INGREDIENTS TO TRUE LOVE:
1. Honesty
2. Thoughtfulness
3. Consideration
4. Respect
5. Equality
6. Open Emotionally
7. Open Communication
8. Kindness
9. Consistency
10. Friendship*
*Your partner should be your BEST FRIEND. Someone you can openly and honestly communicate with.
When a relationship possesses these things - we feel happy, connected, cherished, loved and SAFE! When a relationship does not possess these things we often feel disconnected, hurt, ashamed, guilty, detached, etc.
So, how do you draw TRUE LOVE into your life?
* You RADIATE LOVE!
* You are Kind
* You are Caring
* You Think Nice Thoughts About People
* You Speak Nicely About Others
* You Wish Others Well
* You are a Good Friend.
* You LOVE and RESPECT Yourself
* You LOVE and RESPECT Others
Treat yourself with LOVE and RESPECT and others will do the same! Now, lets take a minute to look at your list of requirements you made for TRUE LOVE. Ask yourself honestly - how many of these traits do you possess yourself? The secret to getting the love you deserve is to become more like the person you desire.. and when you truly are.. you will surely draw them into your life!
Blessings of Light & Love,
-Lady Fontaine
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