In about 5% of my readings I pick up something that is truly 'destiny'. The rest of the time what I predict or see is based on free choice. What that means is that you or anyone involved in the reading has the power to CHANGE the events by CHANGING your actions. Good, bad or indifferent, it really is that simple.
Any psychic can only see through the window of today - the NOW!!! As they look through that window they see (feel, hear, and/or know) a series of events and how they will play out for you. These events are based on the path you are currently on. Many good psychic advisors can tell if you are about to make a change. They often see you at a crossroads where you have decisions and choices. However, what you may not realize, is you don't need to wait to be at these crossroads. You have the power to change that path NOW; hence, change the prediction (and outcome) by changing your actions. Unless I tell you that an event is destiny then you can change the outcome. By the way, the majority of events that come through as destiny as generally fabulous and truly amazing events - that you clearly would NOT want to change anyhow! So, keep in mind that if you don't like what any psychic tells you then look inward and change YOU!! You have that innate ability, we all do!
Did you know the Vatican's has an interpretation on free choice? 'The power of free choice, which Vatican Council II hailed as “an exceptional sign of the divine image within man” (Gaudium et spes, no. 17)' is clearly affirmed by Scripture, the Fathers of the Church, and the whole Catholic tradition. In a paper by William E. May called
The Existence of Free Choice: defined Church teaching he states: "In a beautiful passage cited by Pope John Paul II in his Encyclical Veritatis splendor, the great Greek Father, St. Gregory of Nyssa, eloquently described human freedom of choice as our power to “create ourselves,” as it were:
"All things subject to change and to becoming never remain constant, but continually pass from one state to another, for better or worse….Now human life is always subject to change; it needs to be born ever anew….But here birth does not come about by a foreign intervention, as is the case with bodily beings…; it is the result of a free choice. Thus we are, in a certain way, our own parents, creating ourselves as we will, by our decisions.."
Read that again. Understand that we all have the ability to make free choices. Theologians talk about this all the time. But, understand that free choice is defined by the vatican as a divine power within us! Wow, who wouldn't want to embrace the divine by making different (and often 'smarter') choices?" You have that ability!
This certainly does not mean that free choice is limited to those of the catholic faith. What that means is that FREE CHOICE is not a new concept. The hippies or new age followers haven't invented it as a convenient cop-out - quite the contrary. I bring the religious aspect to your attention so you will realize that free choice is a well documented, well learned concept that theologians all over the world believe and teach and have explored for many centuries.
Likewise the Torah says the following: [Freedom of] choice has been granted to every man... This concept is a fundamental principle and a pillar of the Torah and its commandments (Mishneh Torah, Laws of Repentance 5:1)
So many religions and theologians have been discussing and teaching free choice for centuries. According to Yanki Tauber in an article he wrote called On the Essence of Choice which is based on the teachings of Lubavitcher Rebbe he says: 'The concept of choice is central to the belief and philosophy in Judaism. Two of Judaism's most basic principles revolve around choice: God's choice of Israel as His chosen people, and the free choice that has been granted to man'.
So, maybe it is time YOU chose to buy into the concept of your own power! FREE CHOICE allows you to get out of your own way and truly change the direction of your life.
In any given month I often get calls from people who have called other psychics and are not happy with their readings. More often I get people calling who are unhappy with how their life is unfolding. I do my best to explain the power and miracle of free choice. If you don't like the way something is headed; then CHANGE IT!!!! When I give predictions I generally let people know if they continue on the path they are going - what the outcome will be. But, I also tell them if they make a specific changes what I see. For-instance, oftentimes people call who are in a troubled relationship and ask.. 'should I just walk away?' Well, I can not make choices for you but what I do is let you know what I see the outcome to be if you continue on your current path, but I also let you know what I see if you opt to make changes. It often opens up so many new opportunities that you are not even aware of.. and in some cases that you can not even imagine. That is the POWER of free choice!
So, if you feel stuck and are unhappy with how your life is unfolding; then CHANGE! YOU have the power to create miracles in your life. Make a change and you will see how significant that change can be!!!
If you need help in figuring out what the best direction for you is, schedule a reading with me.
Monday, February 2, 2015
Saturday, February 23, 2013
Law of Attraction Tele-Seminar - March 29, 2013
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Sunday, August 15, 2010
Lady Fontaine Guest Appearances!
Tuesday August 17th at 8:10am(ET) - Mancow Muller. Check the local listings to hear the show LIVE on the radio.
Friday Agust 20th at 7:30pm(ET) - The Invisible World at the Tank Theater in NYC.
Saturday October 16th at 7pm(ET) - Super Psychic Radio with Bill Schreiner.
Friday Agust 20th at 7:30pm(ET) - The Invisible World at the Tank Theater in NYC.
Saturday October 16th at 7pm(ET) - Super Psychic Radio with Bill Schreiner.
Super Psychic Radio Network
Last night (Saturday Aug 14th) I had a return appearance on the Super Psychic Radio Network with Bill Schreiner. I enjoyed the show! Bill is fun and personable and quite informative! Every time I go on the show he has great topics to discuss and I have a great time!! We had some great callers last night and it was an all-around fun show. I am very grateful that I had the opportunity to be on the show again! Thank you Bill & Skye!!
Check out their website (it is lookin' really great guys!!) at: Super Psychic Radio. Achieve Radio has an assortment of other GREAT psychics and shows! Check them out!
Check out their website (it is lookin' really great guys!!) at: Super Psychic Radio. Achieve Radio has an assortment of other GREAT psychics and shows! Check them out!
Friday, July 30, 2010
Friends with Benefits - Does it work?
There have been several studies done on Friends with Benefits Relationships which involve surveys of thousands of college students. These are recent surveys (2007). Based on these studies only 10% of friends with benefits relationships turn into romantic relationships. Approximately 1/3 of those surveyed drop the benefits part and end up as just friends. 1/4 dropped the friendship all together and approximately 1/3 of the friends with benefits continued indefinitely. Amazingly, over 75% of those surveyed in friends with benefits relationships did not have 'relationship' discussions with their partner after entering into this type of arrangement.
According to this 2007 study by Michigan State University those 'friends' who were able to talk openly and honestly before entering a friends with benefits relationship often breaks down and very little communication ensues. While not statistically significant, this study showed that “men focus on the benefits, women on the friends” aspect of the friends with benefits relationship.
So, why do singles enter into these relationships? Usually loneliness or the desire to create something more than just friends. These relationships appear 'safe' on the surface and participants often feel that it is better than just sleeping around. Engaging in a 'friends with benefits' arrangement allows for the physical gratification of a relationship without the commitment. These relationships offer what appears to be the best of both worlds where both partners lead their own lives and are not obligated to the other; which sounds enticing to some but so often one of the partners secretly craves for more. Friends with benefits relationships usually doesn't work out for either party. These arrangements often do not produce lasting or meaningful results and tend to run their course very quickly.
Women and some men have difficulty with physical intimacy without the emotional connection. This can set up one or both individuals for more than they initially bargained for. For women this type of relationship is much harder to maintain because of oxytocin. Oxytocin is a bonding hormone and neurotransmitter, released during orgasm. It is the same hormone released in higher dose when a woman gives birth. So, for women to maintain a casual relationship when there is sex involved chemically works against the dynamics of her hormones and body.
According to this 2007 study by Michigan State University those 'friends' who were able to talk openly and honestly before entering a friends with benefits relationship often breaks down and very little communication ensues. While not statistically significant, this study showed that “men focus on the benefits, women on the friends” aspect of the friends with benefits relationship.
So, why do singles enter into these relationships? Usually loneliness or the desire to create something more than just friends. These relationships appear 'safe' on the surface and participants often feel that it is better than just sleeping around. Engaging in a 'friends with benefits' arrangement allows for the physical gratification of a relationship without the commitment. These relationships offer what appears to be the best of both worlds where both partners lead their own lives and are not obligated to the other; which sounds enticing to some but so often one of the partners secretly craves for more. Friends with benefits relationships usually doesn't work out for either party. These arrangements often do not produce lasting or meaningful results and tend to run their course very quickly.
Women and some men have difficulty with physical intimacy without the emotional connection. This can set up one or both individuals for more than they initially bargained for. For women this type of relationship is much harder to maintain because of oxytocin. Oxytocin is a bonding hormone and neurotransmitter, released during orgasm. It is the same hormone released in higher dose when a woman gives birth. So, for women to maintain a casual relationship when there is sex involved chemically works against the dynamics of her hormones and body.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
How to Tell if Your Man is Getting Serious
WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT YOUR MAN WANTS TO GET SERIOUS?
I am a firm believer in the Three C's: COMMUNICATION, CHEMISTRY and COMPROMISE. These are the staples behind any long-lasting relationship. These along with a few others are the key ingredients to knowing when your man is getting serious.
COMMUNICATION:
A man who is serious about a relationship knows the benefits of communication. He is ready, willing and able to talk honestly and openly and express the good and the bad. Good days, bad days, stressful days and all things in between. Equally, he is interested in you and how your day went, what you feel and what is important to you. He takes the time to listen when you are upset and hurt. He doesn't want to shut you out nor be shut out. Granted, many men are not good at sharing themselves in relationships but a man who wants to get serious finds ways to share and include you into his world.
CHEMISTRY: More than Just Sex
There is great sex but also great intimacy. There is an unspoken language between the two of you. You can be looking at each other from opposite sides of a room and you are in synch with each other. it is undeniable and gets stronger as the relationship matures. It is different from lust that often exists at the beginning of a relationship and then fizzles. True chemistry is always there and builds with intimacy.
COMPROMISE: He is not afraid to compromise – He doesn't always have to be right. He considers your opinion and values it. He recognizes that it isn't just HIS WAY or YOUR WAY - there is a middle ground and he is willing to find it. Even at times when he feels he is right or wants to do things 'his way'.. he finds the way to make that compromise. A man ready to be serious in a relationship knows that a happy partner is the foundation to a solid relationship. Those men that have to be right or have it their way or always persuade their partner do what 'they' want is not conducive to a healthy relationship.
INTERESTED IN YOU AND YOUR LIFE: He gets to know your friends and family
When a man is truly 'into' a woman and wants to get serious he wants to be involved in her life just as he wants her involved in his life. He welcomes opportunities to interact with your family and friends as well as have you involved with his. If he keeps you hidden or as a big secret, the man is not ready to be serious.
REALISTIC GOALS: He's able to accept imperfections:
All too often when a man is only interested in dating, they want Miss Perfect. However, when a man is serious about settling down, he is more open-minded and realistic. He will accept your flaws and more often not even look for or notice them. If a partner is too critical of you, he isn't seeing you for who you really are. That often is a sign that he is not ready to get serious.
PROTECTOR: He wants to be the provider:
Men start thinking about their career future, where they live, where they want to live and start buckling down more seriously with their finances when they are getting serious about a woman. Those men who are older or financially secure will often begin to look at their portfolios in a different way (either to share or protect).
READY: He is talking about Getting Serious.
When you meet someone and begin talking marriage on a first date or even the first month of dating, these are generally situations that don't last. But when a man who has been grounded and real in a relationship and has taken his time getting to know you and allowing the relationship to build its own natural momentum begins talking about settling down or getting married he is generally being sincere. A man doesn't start bringing up marriage or getting serious unless he is ready. Or, if he asks your ring size or favorite cut of diamond, you know he is thinking long-term.
HE HAS TO BE A FIRM BELIEVER IN COMMITMENT:
Some men are truly RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE MATERIAL and others are not. Some men believe in commitment others do not. In order for a man to be ready to be serious he needs to believe in commitment. If he doesn't, it won't ever work.
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Lady Fontaine is known as America's #1 Love Psychic. She is a Certified Relationship Expert and Coach. She is often referred to as THE LOVE DOCTOR!! She has a weekly radio show on blogtalkradio (http://blogtalkradio.com/lady-fontaine). She gives workshops and Tele-seminars on Dating and Relationships through her website at: http://ladyfontaine.com. She wrote a syndicated love column for many years in the 1990's. Her articles have appeared all over the internet on sites such as aol.com, tarot.com, astrology.com, etc.
I am a firm believer in the Three C's: COMMUNICATION, CHEMISTRY and COMPROMISE. These are the staples behind any long-lasting relationship. These along with a few others are the key ingredients to knowing when your man is getting serious.
COMMUNICATION:
A man who is serious about a relationship knows the benefits of communication. He is ready, willing and able to talk honestly and openly and express the good and the bad. Good days, bad days, stressful days and all things in between. Equally, he is interested in you and how your day went, what you feel and what is important to you. He takes the time to listen when you are upset and hurt. He doesn't want to shut you out nor be shut out. Granted, many men are not good at sharing themselves in relationships but a man who wants to get serious finds ways to share and include you into his world.
CHEMISTRY: More than Just Sex
There is great sex but also great intimacy. There is an unspoken language between the two of you. You can be looking at each other from opposite sides of a room and you are in synch with each other. it is undeniable and gets stronger as the relationship matures. It is different from lust that often exists at the beginning of a relationship and then fizzles. True chemistry is always there and builds with intimacy.
COMPROMISE: He is not afraid to compromise – He doesn't always have to be right. He considers your opinion and values it. He recognizes that it isn't just HIS WAY or YOUR WAY - there is a middle ground and he is willing to find it. Even at times when he feels he is right or wants to do things 'his way'.. he finds the way to make that compromise. A man ready to be serious in a relationship knows that a happy partner is the foundation to a solid relationship. Those men that have to be right or have it their way or always persuade their partner do what 'they' want is not conducive to a healthy relationship.
INTERESTED IN YOU AND YOUR LIFE: He gets to know your friends and family
When a man is truly 'into' a woman and wants to get serious he wants to be involved in her life just as he wants her involved in his life. He welcomes opportunities to interact with your family and friends as well as have you involved with his. If he keeps you hidden or as a big secret, the man is not ready to be serious.
REALISTIC GOALS: He's able to accept imperfections:
All too often when a man is only interested in dating, they want Miss Perfect. However, when a man is serious about settling down, he is more open-minded and realistic. He will accept your flaws and more often not even look for or notice them. If a partner is too critical of you, he isn't seeing you for who you really are. That often is a sign that he is not ready to get serious.
PROTECTOR: He wants to be the provider:
Men start thinking about their career future, where they live, where they want to live and start buckling down more seriously with their finances when they are getting serious about a woman. Those men who are older or financially secure will often begin to look at their portfolios in a different way (either to share or protect).
READY: He is talking about Getting Serious.
When you meet someone and begin talking marriage on a first date or even the first month of dating, these are generally situations that don't last. But when a man who has been grounded and real in a relationship and has taken his time getting to know you and allowing the relationship to build its own natural momentum begins talking about settling down or getting married he is generally being sincere. A man doesn't start bringing up marriage or getting serious unless he is ready. Or, if he asks your ring size or favorite cut of diamond, you know he is thinking long-term.
HE HAS TO BE A FIRM BELIEVER IN COMMITMENT:
Some men are truly RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE MATERIAL and others are not. Some men believe in commitment others do not. In order for a man to be ready to be serious he needs to believe in commitment. If he doesn't, it won't ever work.
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Lady Fontaine is known as America's #1 Love Psychic. She is a Certified Relationship Expert and Coach. She is often referred to as THE LOVE DOCTOR!! She has a weekly radio show on blogtalkradio (http://blogtalkradio.com/lady-fontaine). She gives workshops and Tele-seminars on Dating and Relationships through her website at: http://ladyfontaine.com. She wrote a syndicated love column for many years in the 1990's. Her articles have appeared all over the internet on sites such as aol.com, tarot.com, astrology.com, etc.
5 Myths About Online Dating
5 Myths about Online Dating, By Lady Fontaine, Relationship Expert and Coach
Myth #1: You won't find attractive, successful people on online dating sites
FALSE! Online daters come in all shapes and sizes and career status, just as they do in all aspects of life. The population of on-line daters is approximately the same for attractive and successful folks as any other venue. In-fact, most attractive and successful people don't find typical pick-up bars, or singles events an appropriate method of meeting people anymore so there is more than a good chance that you will find MORE attractive people online than at singles bars or singles events. In today's day and age online dating is the first choice for most people so you will find just as many (if not more) attractive people on-line than anywhere else.
Myth #2: Most on-line daters are desperate people who can't get a date any other way
FALSE! In reality online dating is now the way to go. Current statistics show that over $4 billion dollars is spent yearly on on-line dating services. That is roughly 40 million American singles using online dating services. There are an estimated 15 million singles in Britain. In 2008 they went on an unprecedented 24 million first dates arranged through on-line dating services. With these enormous numbers of singles hooking up worldwide via online dating services you will find the expected distribution of incredible catches and those that are not right for you! On-line dating is now considered the #1 option for most daters.
Myth #3: You can't really meet good people on-line
FALSE. Quite the contrary. Many on-line sites have developed tools to help singles find compatible mates. Using these tools you can pre-qualify folks beforehand. You can search on similar interests, backgrounds or various other criteria to fine-tune or expand your search. Since so many people are using on-line dating services your chances of meeting quality folks are basically the same as using any other method of meeting people.
Myth #4: People don't use their real photos
FALSE. On the contrary, most do. Many use photos that make them look slimmer or younger (who wouldn't??), but most people do use their real photos. What on-line daters will come to realize after they have done this for while, is that if their real intention is to meet someone then the ONLY way they'll accomplish that is by using a current and real photo. But, as with any other method of meeting people, looks is only part of the package. On-line dating actually gives you the added bonus of learning MORE about someone UP-FRONT than many other methods of meeting someone.
Myth #5: It isn't acceptable to meet someone on-line
FALSE. Thirty years ago I met my ex-husband (and still very close friend) through a classified ad in the Village Voice Newspaper. Back then people raised an eyebrow when they heard I met my husband through a classified ad. But, nowadays, it is the norm for folks to say: 'I met them on-line'. There is no stigma. In-fact, most on-line daters know that meeting people on-line can offer opportunities beyond normal dating. They can meet people from any part of the country or world that they normally couldn't meet if they were meeting people through more traditional methods. Articles appear in mainstream magazines and newspapers regularly with stories of people meeting online and falling in love. In today's society on-line dating is accepted and respected.
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Lady Fontaine is America's #1 Love Psychic. She is a Certified Relationship and Life Coach. Through her expert guidance she has over 350 marriages to her credit. That doesn;t count the marriages or relationships she has saved; which she has lost count of! A vast majority (over 85%) of her clients have met their partners through on-line dating services.
Lady Fontaine is often referred to as THE LOVE DOCTOR!! She has a weekly radio show on blogtalkradio (http://blogtalkradio.com/lady-fontaine). She gives workshops and Tele-seminars on Dating and Relationships through her website at: http://ladyfontaine.com. She wrote a syndicated love column for many years in the 1990's. Her articles have appeared all over the internet on sites such as aol.com, tarot.com, astrology.com, etc. Here is a sampling of her work:
http://www.tarot.com/articles/psychics/text-message-relationship.php
http://horoscopes.aol.com/psychics-articles/true-love-key-ingredients
Myth #1: You won't find attractive, successful people on online dating sites
FALSE! Online daters come in all shapes and sizes and career status, just as they do in all aspects of life. The population of on-line daters is approximately the same for attractive and successful folks as any other venue. In-fact, most attractive and successful people don't find typical pick-up bars, or singles events an appropriate method of meeting people anymore so there is more than a good chance that you will find MORE attractive people online than at singles bars or singles events. In today's day and age online dating is the first choice for most people so you will find just as many (if not more) attractive people on-line than anywhere else.
Myth #2: Most on-line daters are desperate people who can't get a date any other way
FALSE! In reality online dating is now the way to go. Current statistics show that over $4 billion dollars is spent yearly on on-line dating services. That is roughly 40 million American singles using online dating services. There are an estimated 15 million singles in Britain. In 2008 they went on an unprecedented 24 million first dates arranged through on-line dating services. With these enormous numbers of singles hooking up worldwide via online dating services you will find the expected distribution of incredible catches and those that are not right for you! On-line dating is now considered the #1 option for most daters.
Myth #3: You can't really meet good people on-line
FALSE. Quite the contrary. Many on-line sites have developed tools to help singles find compatible mates. Using these tools you can pre-qualify folks beforehand. You can search on similar interests, backgrounds or various other criteria to fine-tune or expand your search. Since so many people are using on-line dating services your chances of meeting quality folks are basically the same as using any other method of meeting people.
Myth #4: People don't use their real photos
FALSE. On the contrary, most do. Many use photos that make them look slimmer or younger (who wouldn't??), but most people do use their real photos. What on-line daters will come to realize after they have done this for while, is that if their real intention is to meet someone then the ONLY way they'll accomplish that is by using a current and real photo. But, as with any other method of meeting people, looks is only part of the package. On-line dating actually gives you the added bonus of learning MORE about someone UP-FRONT than many other methods of meeting someone.
Myth #5: It isn't acceptable to meet someone on-line
FALSE. Thirty years ago I met my ex-husband (and still very close friend) through a classified ad in the Village Voice Newspaper. Back then people raised an eyebrow when they heard I met my husband through a classified ad. But, nowadays, it is the norm for folks to say: 'I met them on-line'. There is no stigma. In-fact, most on-line daters know that meeting people on-line can offer opportunities beyond normal dating. They can meet people from any part of the country or world that they normally couldn't meet if they were meeting people through more traditional methods. Articles appear in mainstream magazines and newspapers regularly with stories of people meeting online and falling in love. In today's society on-line dating is accepted and respected.
Lady Fontaine is America's #1 Love Psychic. She is a Certified Relationship and Life Coach. Through her expert guidance she has over 350 marriages to her credit. That doesn;t count the marriages or relationships she has saved; which she has lost count of! A vast majority (over 85%) of her clients have met their partners through on-line dating services.
Lady Fontaine is often referred to as THE LOVE DOCTOR!! She has a weekly radio show on blogtalkradio (http://blogtalkradio.com/lady-fontaine). She gives workshops and Tele-seminars on Dating and Relationships through her website at: http://ladyfontaine.com. She wrote a syndicated love column for many years in the 1990's. Her articles have appeared all over the internet on sites such as aol.com, tarot.com, astrology.com, etc. Here is a sampling of her work:
http://www.tarot.com/articles/psychics/text-message-relationship.php
http://horoscopes.aol.com/psychics-articles/true-love-key-ingredients
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